From Jivamukti -
DISAPPOINTED IN SOMEONE? OR IN A SITUATION THAT ISN'T GOING 'YOUR' WAY?
Without Expectation...Swami Satchidananda
“Our peace is always within us. We are, in fact, in the form of peace. Nothing can disturb us. If anything at all disturbs our peace, it’s our own desire, our own expectation, our own appointments. Very often we say, ‘I am disappointed.’ Why? Nobody is the cause. Nobody can make you disappointed if you have not made your own appointment. You make your appointment and you get disappointed. Why should we blame A or B or C? ‘Oh, he has disappointed me.’ How can he disappoint you if you have not fixed an appointment? That’s it."
I read this this week and was furious.. then i realized it is right... I struggle with this.